The New York Times just published a fascinating article about how "buying time" (aka outsourcing or delegating) can increase your happiness level. Whether it's ordering take-out on a stressful weeknight or paying someone to clean your house, outsourcing specific tasks in your life can significantly reduce burnout and increase happiness.
So why don't we do it more? The researchers have a hunch: "a Protestant work ethic that values being busy or guilt over paying someone for a task that people could easily do ... 'We want to seem like we have it all together and we might be therefore resistant to spending money on timesaving purchases even when we can afford it.'"
In my work, I meet so many people working hard to "do it all". That's why I've started to do even more to help ease the burdens on my clients. Not only am I helping them to completely de-clutter their homes, I'm helping them to simplify and de-clutter their LIVES. I do this in two ways:
1) I teach them how to do LESS.
When you are in a state of overwhelm, there is only one thing to do: SIMPLIFY. One of the best tools to help you do this is the 4Ds:
Diminish - This one is my favorite! How can you do less of something?
Don't clean the whole house. Set a timer for 20 minutes and do your best impression of a Tazmanian Devil as you whiz around straightening up and wiping down.
Love hosting but don't have the time? Host monthly "come as you are" dinners, where your guests (and you!) might even be in sweatpants and enjoy take-out or grill some food. (Great tip from my fellow KonMari buddy Patty Morrissey.)
Defer - Can you do this later?
Use apps like ToDo to prioritize your to-dos and move tasks to “next week” with one easy click.
Look for open pockets of time on your calendar in the next week and schedule things that are important but not necessarily urgent, like finally making that vet appointment or renewing your passport.
Delegate - Can someone else do this for you?
I LOVE delegating my grocery shopping to Peapod. Every time that happy green truck pulls up and plops my groceries right on my kitchen floor, the joy sparks fly.
On your to-do list, note items that a spouse or partner can do. My husband knows he’s in trouble when I get out the purple Sharpie...
Delete - Do you even need to do this at all?
Hate sending Christmas cards? Don’t send them. That's all.
Got an invitation to a party that you don’t want to attend? Send your regrets. That's all.
2) The second way that I help my clients is to actually take on some of the tasks they need accomplished.
Need to ship something at FedEx? I got this.
Want to manage all of your papers digitally. No problem.
Don't have time to sell your clothes at your neighborhood consignment shop? I'm on it.
Need the fridge stocked after a long week away? Consider it done.
I love being one of many resources that my clients can use to buy back some of their precious time, leading to more peaceful and happy lives.